It used to be tightly crocheted with an open weave pattern on either end. It now has bigger holes and a stretched appearance.
It used to be an it. He slept with a blanket--with the devotion and constancy that some of us show our God--but still it was just his comforter, his transitional object.
Somehow over the last year, it has become she. His blanket is now Blankie. Blankie gives and asks for hugs and kisses when I am giving them to Kyle at night. Blankie does things while Kyle is away from his room during the day: "Blankie is still sleeping." "Blankie's going to play with the dinosaur while I'm gone."
At first I just thought it was cute and imaginative. Recently I've only come to recognize it for what it really is. It's magic.
The magic of childhood affects everything that they touch, but especially that which they love. There are rules that we as adults are forced to accept: "Toys don't talk. That's just a blanket. Walk, don't run." If our children accepted these rules--adhered to these rules--there would be no magic, and I think that life around my house would be a lot shabbier.
He didn't mind how he looked to other people, because the nursery magic had made him Real, and when you are Real, shabbiness doesn't matter.
from The Velveteen Rabbit by Margery Williams
New Jersey Moms blog by SV Moms is hosting a Writing Motherhood book club today, based on the book by Lisa Garrigues (a book I've been meaning to review). They invited us to link up and share our thoughts on a time your child broke the rules, or an outrageous or inexcusable mom moment (of which I have a large sad store of ideas).
The idea for this particular post was sparked after reading Monica Brand's evocative post about her daughter's beloved bear.